Deacon Ken’s Homily for 4th Sunday of Advent Sunday December 21, 2025
We’ve all been there. Sketchy situations, decisions needing to be made doubtful of a successful outcome, can’t seem to move forward, and for sure don’t want to move backward. That place we all have been. Is called: “A Rock and a Hard Place”.
My rock and hard place came one day while scuba diving with my friends Tracy and Jim in Okinawa. The order was Tracy, Jim and then me. We were scuba diving around a coral head and came to a big hole cut in the coral. Tracy, went right through. Jim, went right through. I went about halfway through and heard “thunk”! I couldn’t move forward, not even a little bit! I was able to back out. I thought: “Tracy and Jim made it through. Tracy is longer than me, Jim is bigger around than me” and so, I made a second attempt at the hole. Thunk! I tried backing out again, but was hopelessly wedged. I could look up and see the sun shining and the waves breaking about ten feet above my head. I thought” I’m going to drown here in ten feet of water“! I had just enough room to wiggle a little bit and was attempting to get out of my buoyancy control device (the jacket the air tank is attached to) and tank, when Jim and Tracy came back looking for me. Tracy shoved down and back on the crown of my head and I popped right out.
A rock and a hard place is where we find Ahaz and Joseph in today’s readings. Ahaz was the King of the southern part of the Holy Land. He was approached by the King of Samaria, who ruled the Northern part of the Holy Land, and the King of Damascus, North of the Holy Land. The two Kings wanted Ahaz to join forces with them to repel the advancing forces of the Assyrians. The Assyrians were extremely cruel, barbaric people, and were the major force to be reckoned with in the area. Ahaz wouldn’t join forces with the two northern Kings. As a result, the two Kings conspired to attack and then replace Ahaz with a King who would cooperate with their plan. Ahaz discovered the plan and asked the Assyrians for protection which he received. The two northern Kings were destroyed.
A rock and a hard place is where we find Ahaz and Joseph in today’s readings. Ahaz was the King of the southern part of the Holy Land. He was approached by the King of Samaria, who ruled the Northern part of the Holy Land, and the King of Damascus, North of the Holy Land. The two Kings wanted Ahaz to join forces with them to repel the advancing forces of the Assyrians. The Assyrians were extremely cruel, barbaric people, and were the major force to be reckoned with in the area. Ahaz wouldn’t join forces with the two northern Kings. As a result, the two Kings conspired to attack and then replace Ahaz with a King who would cooperate with their plan. Ahaz discovered the plan and asked the Assyrians for protection which he received. The two northern Kings were destroyed.
Isaiah tried to reassure Ahaz that God would not abandon him in his “rock and hard place”. Isaiah said that Ahaz needn’t get involved with the two Kings or with the King of the Assyrians, but Ahaz paid Isaiah no heed. Isaiah instructed Ahaz to ask God for a sign to affirm God’s promise to be with his people, but Ahaz would not ask. So, Isaiah gave Ahaz and all of Israel a sign: “A virgin would conceive and bear a son, and he shall be called Emmanuel”.
Joseph was a devout Jew. According to the law, when he discovered that Mary was pregnant, but not with his child, Joseph should have publicly divorced her. Joseph was a good man and didn’t want to expose Mary to the shame. If he had publicly divorced her, Mary would have been charged with adultery and stoned to death. An angel appeared in a dream and told Joseph not to be afraid to take Mary into his home. For through the Holy Spirit, a child has been conceived in her. Mary will bear a son, and you are to name him Emmanuel which means “God with Us”. Joseph was between a Rock and Hard place. Where should his obedience fall? Should he follow the law, or follow the instructions of the angel? Joseph did as the angel instructed. He practiced obedience of faith; the obedience of faith Saint Paul tells us about.
The scriptures tell us of great acts of obedience of faith by his people. By faith, Abraham set out with his people to a land he had never seen, no clue where he was going. By faith, he lived as a stranger in the promised land. By faith, Sarah who was thought to be past child bearing age, conceived a child. By faith Abraham offered to sacrifice his only son. By faith, Mary welcomes the words of the Angel Gabriel who tells her that she would conceive a Son by the power of the Holy Spirit. Mary didn’t understand, but she answered: “Do unto me as you wish”. These are just a few of many examples.
You and I have our own Rocks and Hard places. Sometimes we have to choose to rob Peter to pay Paul. Sometimes to support one child is to take away time from another. Often events we want to participate in, conflict with events we should participate in. Sometimes God places us in situations where we have to have faith to endure, faith to know that He is in control.
As we look and see where God is working in our lives, we discover it is those times where we grow the most in our Faith. We are able to say without fail: “I trust you God, my faith is in you”.
Isn’t it great to know we serve a God who will never abandon us in our “rocks and hard” places?
A God who can do the impossible and the unimaginable. A God who always has our best interest in mind? Emmanuel, “God with us”, a sign to Ahaz, Emmanuel, “God with us”, words from an angel to Joseph Emmanuel, “God with US”, in our rocks and hard places, Today and forever!
